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I just got back from a run. I’m amazed to write those words. I believe it might have been many years since I last did so. However I recently discovered that I have slightly high cholesterol, and doctors suggested to do sweaty exercise on a consistent basis.

For the first time ever in living memory that the reason to work out has been my physical health. In my youth, I jogged because I aimed to be thinner. I also jogged to manage nervousness – It was an avoidance tactic from the anxiety, not addressing it. At other times, I ran because I wanted to get better in running. This was the meaning to me back then to create an improved existence.

Exercising with new motivation now prompted contemplation about the approaches I’ve interacted with my physical self during my years and how this is changing as I move from youth to being a middle-aged person. I believe not I’ve honored my own body, not truly. I’ve appreciated it just for its functions and the purposes it provided: trying to attract others; escaping emotions; running a faster 5km. Previously, I failed to grasp that my body is me, it is my existence, rather than something that produces results.

Much has been discussed through history about the split involving physical and mental aspects – a topic it’s comforting to know, I won’t summarize in this piece. What has struck me most intriguing is Freud’s understanding that consciousness and physique are innately connected right from the start, because bodily growth necessitates mental growth and the reverse is true. A baby’s corporeal feelings – such as the physical sensation of hunger – motivate consciousness to cultivate the skill to perceive hunger as a sensation that can be sated by eating; and the psychological solace and contentment consistently provided by feed after feed feeds the infant’s psyche just as the milk fuels them physically. Likewise emotional occurrences – for instance the desire to rise and attain a goal, and the resolve to attempt repeatedly – are the reason and method physical strength increases. From our earliest moments, mind and body are interconnected in shared growth as connected as a spiral.

Yet I’ve observed, during therapy with my analyst, that my consciousness and physique may exist in an alternate dynamic – one less integrated and more exploitative. My psyche might utilize my physical self to hold and manifest things that my psyche views unwanted or unacceptable. During therapy we realized how there are particular emotional states that I am afraid I can’t handle; rather than experiencing them mentally, I subconsciously shift them into bodily form, becoming trapped as bodily signs.

I used to get this as indigestion – which had nothing to do with my diet, but was a form of corporeal reaction of the more acidic feelings I couldn’t digest in my mind. This wasn’t a deliberate decision, but when it was brought to my attention by my analyst, and my dread and vulnerability and frustration and panic became palpable and put into words in place of changed into bodily feelings, it vanished. It’s uncommon for me from stomach problems today.

The worst time I endured this terrible acid reflux, I didn’t sleep for multiple consecutive nights. I believed I was losing my mind. I consulted a general practitioner, who organised all sorts of diagnostic procedures, but there was nothing physically wrong. The situation was a different physician who informed me that the cause may be mental. My therapist agreed. I was shocked, but I also felt it was accurate.

If an individual endures a corporeal problem, they might feel insulted if told that it could have an emotional origin. They might feel like disrespect, the idea that their illness is fabricated. Certainly that does happen – some face their suffering ignored or misdiagnosed. Yet occasionally it could be that the bodily signs exist – without doubt – and the origin is emotional, the inner mind utilizing the body to convey some pain or rage or whichever sentiment the conscious self is unable to bear. Occasionally, we may believe our feelings only has value only through expression through the body. We often undervalue our mental states as individuals, collectively and within our culture; why else can we allow the terrible killing-off of mental health treatments on the NHS?

Life lessons have shown me that an improved existence is unattainable while caught unconsciously in modes of connection, inside us and socially, that stem from devaluation, use and exchange. These dynamics tend to be simpler to spot “in the world” in wider society. It’s likely harder to think about their origins, and to recognise these patterns personally and within our closest relationships, in the economy of our minds.

Yet it’s valuable to continue. After donning my trainers once more after such a long decade, going outside not for a better body, or to eliminate an emotion, or to improve a 5km time, {it